OPINION: Merchant is a dumbass, and mayor is not a “Nazi”

Despite what one downtown merchant in Biddeford is saying on Facebook, Mayor Marty Grohman – despite his pale skin tone, blonde hair and blue eyes – is not a member of the Aryan Nation.

I’ll be kind and not call the merchant out by name — but calling the mayor a “Nazi” for something he didn’t actually do is quite a leap and a profoundly stupid move, especially when it’s posted on your business Facebook page.

I’m not suggesting that Grohman is above reproach or criticism. In fact, the most dangerous place in Biddeford is getting between Grohman and a camera. He does love posting selfies, showing us all how connected he is to the city. He is also somewhat overly genial in how he runs city meetings, but to call him or anyone else a “Nazi” is simply despicable.

So, what incurred this merchant’s wrath and their subsequent public vitriol?

Two days ago, the Saco Bay News site posted an update about this year’s Memorial Day celebration, pointing out that the traditional parade had been cancelled.

That was near the top of the story.

Apparently, a lot of people stopped reading the story beyond its second sentence and they jumped on Facebook to accuse Grohman and other municipal officials for “a slap in the face to our local veterans.”

Here, hold my beer.

One, the annual celebration is a two-community event. Where was the outrage for my step-sister, Saco Mayor Jodi McPhail?  Are we absolutely sure that she’s not a Nazi? I’ve known her since she was 12, but you can never be too trusting,

Some people just love to be outraged and can’t wait to share their righteous indignation all over Facebook. The technical term for this behavior is “dumbass-it is.”

If you had taken the time to read the story – beyond the headline – you would see that this year’s Memorial Day celebration will be bigger and better than ever before.

Or, as Saco Rep. Marshall Archer says, “it will be like a parade without all the walking.”

Archer knows a thing or two about local veterans. He served four years in the U.S. Marine Corps and did two tours in Iraq. He is today the Post Commander for the Amvets in Biddeford.

Archer is also a former city councilor and today serves as a member of Maine’s Legislature. He said he was saddened by many of the comments he saw on Facebook.

“It will be like a parade
without all the walking.”

Marshall Archer, Commander, Biddeford AMVETS

“This was not a last-minute decision,” Archer explained. “A lot of people worked very hard over the last several weeks to organize the event.”

Archer says that closing Main Street in both Saco and Biddeford for a parade was not a viable option this year, considering the ongoing, state-mandated road repair project.

“It’s just a different approach,” Archer explained. “We will close down the bridge for five minutes to do the annual wreath laying on the Saco River.”

Archer said this year’s event is a coordinated effort between several different organizations and dozens of volunteers.

AMVETS Post Commander Marshall Archer (Contributed photo)

I don’t suspect that the outraged businessowner was one of those volunteers.

This year’s celebration will also include musical performances by marching bands from schools in Biddeford and Saco. More details can be found by clicking this link:

“I felt compelled to respond to the rumors and criticism,” Archer explained. “There is no need to feed off the negative energy. My fallen brothers and sisters will be well-honored this year, and I’m proud to be part of that.”

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Biddeford-Saco Memorial Day ceremony will be held in Biddeford this year

The cities of Biddeford and Saco will once again be honoring fallen veterans during an annual Memorial Day remembrance ceremony at Waterhouse Field in Biddeford.

The Biddeford-Saco Memorial Day ceremony will take place on Monday, May 26, beginning at 10 a.m.

Contributed photo by Andrew Dickinson

Organizers say this year’s ceremony will be “a heartfelt tribute to those who gave their lives in military service.”

Hosting the ceremony at Waterhouse Field will allow ample parking for community members, according to organizers.

“Holding the ceremony at the stadium gives us a special opportunity to come together in one place where everyone can clearly hear the speaker and enjoy the full band performances,” said Delilah Poupore, executive director of Heart of Biddeford, one of the event organizers. “With accessible parking and space for all generations to gather, we’re hoping for good weather and an even better turnout this year.”

Due to an ongoing major road construction project, event organizers say having a parade was not feasible this year because Main Street in both Biddeford and Saco cannot be closed to motorists.

The twin-city ceremony will be emceed by Kayla Lewis, a U.S. Navy veteran and local leader known for her work in community development and veteran advocacy.

Attendees will again be treated to musical performances by the Thornton Academy Marching Band, the Saco Middle School Band, and the combined Biddeford High School and Middle School bands, who will help set a reverent and patriotic tone.

This year’s guest speaker will be Don Chretien, a retired U.S. Marine Corps helicopter pilot and author from Biddeford.

The event will also recognize Grand Marshal
Raynald “Ray” Hallczuk, a Vietnam War
veteran and respected leader
in Biddeford’s veterans community.

Organizers say that Chretien’s remarks will be especially timely as 2025 marks the 50th anniversary of the end of the Vietnam War, making this year’s ceremony a particularly meaningful opportunity for remembrance and reflection.

The event will also recognize Grand Marshal Raynald “Ray” Hallczuk, a Vietnam War veteran and respected leader in Biddeford’s veteran community.

Earlier in the morning, a small contingent of veterans and city officials will carry out the traditional placement of memorial wreaths—first in the Saco River and later at Veterans Memorial Park—accompanied by brief pauses for Taps. A wreath is placed in the Saco River to honor those lost at sea and to recognize the service of Navy and Coast Guard members.

Residents are encouraged to arrive at the stadium prior to 10 a.m. to gather with neighbors and veterans in shared remembrance.

Prior to and after the ceremony, “touch a truck” vehicles and possibly classic cars will be on display near the stadium. Accessible and veterans’ parking will be available for free near the home team stadium seating at Waterhouse Field. Additional parking can be found on surrounding streets, with overflow free parking available at the JFK School parking lot nearby.

This ceremony is made possible with the coordination of Heart of Biddeford, with support from the American Legion, AmVets, Vietnam Veterans of America, the Mayor’s Veterans Committee, and city departments in both Biddeford and Saco.

Those who wish to volunteer are encouraged to sign up here are asked to visit this website: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1JRnmE5_tyieoCirrjTQ_DvmKj7W4D9mjkJDnzdibHPg/edit

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